Well I saw my surgeon today.
He's so lovely. He's trying everything to avoid having to operate again. Unfortunately all he could suggest was continuing to splint if it helps and continue pain meds until the weather warms up and to come back and see him in 4 months or so.
He's really understanding and acknowledged I've been through am awful lot with this wrist.
I will blog about the whole saga sometime - I'm a little too depressed to relive the whole thing now.
Meanwhile quilting is good therapy when I can manage it. Some days I'm too sore but I do need to use my fingers at the very least.